Make the Most of Your Life


I received some unfortunate disturbing new last evening of someone I have known for a long while. She was a part of a church family that we both belonged to at one time. When my mother called and told me she had passed, it was almost like it was about someone in my own family. It also made me realize that we all have to pass that way and that life is so uncertain. Here today, gone tomorrow, and sometimes gone the same day. Let us live life to the fullest and keep family close.

I would like to share this poem with you by Linda Ellis.

LIFE BETWEEN THE “DASH”

I read of a man who stood to speak
at the funeral of a friend.
He referred to the dates on her tombstone
from the beginning…to the end.

He noted that first came her date of birth
and spoke the following date with tears,
but he said what mattered most of all
was the “dash” between those years.

For that dash represents all the time
that she spent alive on earth…
and now only those who loved her
know what that little line is worth.

For it matters not, how much we own;
the cars…the house…the cash,
what matters is how we live and love
and how we spend our “dash”.

So think about this long and hard…
are there things you’d like to change?
For you never know how much time is left,
that can still be rearranged.

If we could just slow down enough
to consider what’s true and real,
and always try to understand
the way other people feel.

And be less quick to anger,
and show appreciation more
and love the people in our lives
like we’ve never loved before.

If we treat each other with respect,
and more often wear a smile…
remembering that this special “dash”
might only last a little while.

So, when your eulogy’s being read
with your life’s actions to rehash…
would you be proud of the things they say
about how you spent your “dash”?

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